In general being truthful is the best option morally, ethically, and I believe even practically. But being truthful does not mean going about broadcasting truthful information to all and sundry. There must be a purpose in disclosing even the truth.
In this particular case, there appears to be good case for disclosing the truth. This is to prevent the relationship between your friend and someone else becoming soured. I assume that this will have negative consequences for both of them. If you can help them retain good relationship, why not do it? The other side of the issue is the possible blame you will face for having betrayed your friend. I believe that should not come in way of truth for several reasons. First if it was a genuine mistake on your part you should be able to explain it to your friend. Second your friendship might actually improve if your friend sees that you are truthful with him or her and are concerned about his or her relationship with others. Finally, if the friend is unreasonable and insist on blames you without justification, you need to examine the worth of such friendship.
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